is the belief in "What ever comes, I've got it covered". It is the learned daily practice to trust in your future self. Confidence is a decision!

Nobody is coming to save you

You are responsible for everything in your life. Whether it was your fault or not. If you want something. Go get it!

Self-forgiveness

Shit happens. Makes you grow. Past is the past. Now is what you make it. Move on.

External validation

If you seek this one, you outsource your self esteem to other people. People are stupid. People are bitches. You have nothing to prove.